The Couple Who Games Together: What We Learned From Gaming.

June 21, 2010 - 1:02 am 3 Comments

They say opposites attract, but I’d be inclined to argue that opposites don’t stay together, not for the long hall at least.  As far as things go to be opposites on, gaming tends to be pretty clear cut: you are either for it, engaging in it as a hobby and a passion or you’re against it, regarding it as childish and a waste of time.  Stereotypically, the example always tends to be a less-than-attentive husband and a nagging wife.  But what about couples who are both into gaming?  What about the couple who can both scream a blood curdling war cry and slaughter the enemy and spend tender moments curled on the couch together? Mark and I are this couple, and we’ve learned alot from gaming.

Teamwork- One person takes the hits, the other heals them without running away (not that I’ve ever ran mind you… no seriously).

Trust – Learning to rely on your healer, aka the wife, who has assured you she isn’t going to run away and leave you to die this time.

Respect – You want the acheivement and by God, everyone in the room is staying until you get it.

Communication – “FOR THE LOVE OF CHRIST WHAT THE F IS THAT A-HOLE DOING? NEED HEALS NOW PLEASE!”

Compromise – I got the last piece of loot, you can have this one.

Acceptance - You’re far more elite than I will ever be.

Committment- You mean to say we’ve been on this raid for 5 hours?

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3 Responses to “The Couple Who Games Together: What We Learned From Gaming.”

  1. Matt Says:

    Communication is my fav. I have screamed that out more times than I can imagine, especially in Borderlands.

    Keep entertaining the Internet and good luck with Little Doodle.

  2. David B Says:

    And for gaming couples that don’t work…

    ‘FML will you stop running after critters, I just got owned by Hogger’

    ‘Where’d the raid go, I was collecting herbs!’
    ‘pfft I’ll come and find you… Sorry guys.’

    ‘i want to kill tis mob!’
    ‘But I’m tanking this one now’
    ‘Well I’m going this way’
    ‘Heaaaaallllls… Ugh… It’s okay, I’ll corpse run.’

    This was a reflection of out personal life. Forget comparability tests, play WoW.

  3. Katie Says:

    I found your blog from the baby center website! I just love finding fellow nerdy moms! Sometimes they are far and few between:-(
    My hubby and I don’t play WoW (we try and keep our addictions to a financially sustainable level) but I have learned from general video gaming with him to be a better looser. Also my husband is not a team player!!!
    I agree with the communication one!

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